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Buon compleanno alla nostra AMICIZIA


Torta per le mie amiche

Le frasi suscitano emozioni. 

Il potere delle parole e di come si possono pronunciare e scrivere.

Una sera la mia amica del liceo mi invita a cena a casa sua con altre compagne di classe. La nostra amicizia è iniziata dietro i banchi di scuola e da allora ne abbiamo fatta tanta di strada insieme. Le poche volte che riusciamo ad incontrarci siamo in sei. Ognuna fa un lavoro diverso, ha una situazione familiare diversa, ma il sentimento dell’incontro è lo stesso per tutte. Dato che il giorno dopo è il mio compleanno, mi fermo in gelateria e compro una torta. Sono veramente felice di vederle e per me è come se avessi ricevuto un regalo di compleanno. Chiedo alla gelataia di scrivere sulla torta una dedica. La ragazza è giovane, con i capelli corti e biondi, gli occhi blu e un sorriso simpatico. Appoggia la torta che ho scelto sul bancone poi mi chiede cosa deve scrivere.

“Buon compleanno alla nostra amicizia” le rispondo con convinzione.

Lei, per una frazione di secondi, rimane immobile fissandomi con le guance che arrossiscono lievemente. Io le faccio un cenno di domanda alzando le sopracciglia e allargando gli occhi. Ho capito che la mia frase non le é stata indifferente. Lei torna in sé, impugna con delicatezza la tasca da pasticcere o sac à poche, per dirla alla francese. Osserva lo spazio che ha a disposizione, prende bene le misure e procede con grazia a dare alla cioccolata, che scende dalla bocchetta decorativa, la forma delle lettere.

Io continuo a notare la concentrazione e la cura del suo fare. Ho visto poche volte l’evidenza di tanta passione e sentimento. Ammiro l’arte del suo scrivere. E’ evidente che crede nelle parole che le ho detto. Quando arriva alla parola “amicizia” la scrive tutta in lettere maiuscole, senza che io glielo abbia chiesto.

Mi incuriosisce: “Tu credi molto nell’amicizia, vero?”


“Lo vedo per come ti stai impegnando”

“Io, senza la mia migliore amica, sarei assolutamente persa; nei momenti brutti è sempre lei che mi ha aiutato e mi aiuta.”




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“Buon compleanno alla nostra AMICIZIA”

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